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The seminar costs $80 per parent.
Registrations occurs via Eventbrite
Parents must sign up for different sessions.
This is a mandatory class for all co-parents filing for divorce.
Picture Books for Families Transitioning Through Divorce
The Invisible String — Patrice Karst
I Love You When You're Angry — Erin Winters, illustrated by Kaitlin Bucher
I Love You When I’m Happy and I Love You When I’m Sad by Christi Kmecik
The Great Big Book of Families — Mary Hoffman, illustrated by Ros Asquith
Why do Families Change? By Jillian Roberts, Illustrated by Cindy Revell
Three Hearts Two Houses by Natalie Ellis Monterasteli
Two Homes Filled with Love by Steve Herman
Max’s Divorce Earthquake by Rachel Bracy, Illustrated by Angela Perrini
Books on Blending Families
Harriet’s Expanding Heart by Rachel Brace, Illustrated by Angela Perrini
A New Special Friend by Tamar Burris, Illustrated by Mousam Banerjee
Divorce Activity Books for Children
My Family is Changing: A drawing and activity book for kids of divorce by Tracy Mccconaghie
Divorce Chapter Books for Teens
The List of Things That Will Not Change — Rebecca Stead
Divorce is Not the End of The World by Zoe and Evan Stern
Divorce Books For Parents
The Co-Parenting Handbook — Karen Bonnell, with Kristin Little
Divorce/Collaborative Divorce Links
What is a Collaborative Divorce? - START HERE!
King County Collaborative Law - Professionals in Collaborative Practice Transforming the Landscape of Legal Conflict Resolution
IACP: Collaborative Law, collaborative practice, collaborative divorce.
Up To Parents - Home of Parents' Commitments to Their Children During and Following Divorce
Samaritan Center of Puget Sound- Divorce Lifeline
Books in My Play Therapy Office
Picture Books on Emotion Regulation
Some Days I Flip My Lid-Learning to be a calm, cool kid by Kellie Doyle Bailey, Illustrated by Hannah Bailey
The Bad Seed by Jory John, Illustrated by Pete Oswald
Even Superheroes Have Bad Days by Shelly Becker, Illustrated by Eda Kaban
Wilma Jean the Worry Machine by Julia Cook, Illustrated by Anita Dufalla
Today I Feel Silly & other moods that make my day by Jamie Lee Curtis, Illustrated by Laura Cornell
“Slowly, Slowly, Slowly,” said the Sloth by Eric Carle
F is for Feelings by Goldie Millar and Lisa A. Berger, Illustrated by Hazel Mitchell
That’s my Truck! A good inside story about hitting by Dr. Becky Kennedy, Illustrated by Joanie Stone
I Just Want to Do it My Way! My story about staying on task and asking for help By Julia Cook, Illustrated by Kelsey De Weerd
Jared’s Cool-Out Space by Jane Nelson, Illustrated by Bill Schorr
Sophia’s Anger Wheel of Choice by Jane Nelson, Illustrated by Bill Schorr
Train Your Angry Dragon by Steve Herman
Picture Books on Boundaries
A Terrible Thing Happened by Margaret M. Holmes, Illustrated by Cary Pillo
Do You Have a Secret? Jennifer Moore-Mallinos, Illustrated by Marta Fabrega
Yes! No! A First Conversation about Consent by Megan Madison, Jessiace Ralli, & Isabel Roxas
Out-of-Control Rhino: An impulse control story by Shoshana Stopek, Illustrated by Roman Diaz
Increasing the Crucial C’s (Courage, Capable, Connect, and Count)
Me & Mrs. C by Betty Lou Bettner, Illustrations by Jon White
What Do You Do With An Idea? By Kobi Yamada, Illustrated by Mae Besom
The Little Blue Bridge by Brenda Maier, Illustrated by Sonia Sanchez
Bella Likes to Try by Mary Lou Sanelli, Illustrated by Jessica Levey
The Proudest Blue: A story of Hijab and Family by Ibtihaj Muhammad with S.K. Ali, Illustrated by Hatem Aly
Spaghetti in a Hot Dog Bun, Having the courage to be who you are by Maria Dismondy, Illustrated by Kim Shaw
Hats are Not for Cats! By Jacqueline K. Rayner
Super Coco Will You Be My Friend? By Dr. Jay and Julie Lipoff, Illustrated by Ellisa Direnzo
Giraffes Can’t Dance by Giles Andede and Guy Parker-Rees
I will Never Get a Star on Mrs. Benson’s Blackboard by Jennifer K. Mann
Picture Books on Psychoeducation About Diagnosis
All Cats are On The Autism Spectrum by Kathy Hoopmann
All Dogs Have ADHD by Kathy Hoopmann
All Birds Have Anxiety by Kathy Hoopmann
Development and Growing Bodies
What Makes a Baby by Cory Silverberg, Illustrated by Fiona Smyth (3+)
It’s NOT the Stork! A book about girls, boys, babies, families, and friends by Robie H. Harris, Illustrated by Michael Emberley (4+)
It’s So Amazing! A book about eggs, sperm, birth, babies, and families by Robie H. Harris, Illustrated by Michael Emberley (7+)
Sex is a funny Word by Cory Silverberg and Fiona Smyth (End of Elementary and into Middle School Age)
You Know, Sex by Cory Silverberg and Fiona Smyth (Middle Schoolers)
Bodies are Cool by Tyler Feder (picture book for all ages)
More Books For Unique Occasions
The Night Before First Grade by Natasha Wing, Illustrated by Deborah Zemke
What is God? By Etan Boritzer, Illustrated by Robbie Marantz
Tell Me Again About the Night I Was Born by Jamie Lee Curtis, Illustrated by Laura Cornell
YouTube Channels that Have More Education Than Brainrot
Nat Geo Kids - Nature and Animals
CBC Kids News - News for Teens
4 Ever Green - Animals
Smithsonian Museum- Longer videos for older kids
Ted Ed- Great playlist on News Media Literacy
Art Hub for Kids- Drawing tutorials for kids
Dad, how do i? - Teens learning everyday skills
Veritasium- science
Mr. Demaio- Education about cool topics
What do we do all day? - activities for elementary kids
Jelle’s Marble Run- Chill videos on marbles
Nerd Writer - Education on art and media
Vsauce- Be curious with him
Adam Neely - Music theory
Game Makers Toolkit- Insight about video games (teens)
Numberfile- Numbers are cool, see for yourself.
Links to Resources
Divorce/Collaborative Divorce
What is a Collaborative Divorce? - START HERE!
King County Dispute Resolution Center
Washington Mediation Association
King County Collaborative Law - Professionals in Collaborative Practice Transforming the Landscape of Legal Conflict Resolution
IACP: Collaborative Law, collaborative practice, collaborative divorce.
Up To Parents - Home of Parents' Commitments to Their Children During and Following Divorce
Defusing Divorce
Cooperative Parenting Institute- Resources
Samaritan Center of Puget Sound- Divorce Lifeline
The Stepfamily Foundation, Inc.
Child and Teen Resources
Amaze.org - Puberty and Body Education
https://newslit.org/ - News and Technology Guidance for Kids
Books for Therapist
Reading is at the heart of how I grow as a therapist — these are the books that have shaped my thinking, and I'm sharing them in hopes they resonate with other clinicians too.
Play Therapy with Adults by Charles Schaefer
Family Play Therapy by Charles Schaefer & Lois Carey
Between Give and Take: A Clinical Guide to Contextual Therapy by Ivan Boszormenyl-Nagy & Barbara Krasner
Family Healing: Strategies for Hope and Understanding by Salvador Minuchin
You can Fix Your Family by Charles Fishman
Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson
Intensive Structural Therapy by Charles Fishman
The Co-Parents Handbook by Karen Bonnell
The Therapeutic Powers of Play: 20 Core Agents of Change by Charles E. Schaefer & Athena A. Drewes
Play Therapy: Basics and Beyond by Terry Kottman
AutPlay Therapy for Children and Adolescents on the Autism Spectrum by Robert Jason Grant
The AutPlay Therapy Handbook by Robert Jason Grant
Partners in Play: An Adlerian Approach to Play Therapy by Terry Kottman
Healing After Loss: Daily Meditations for Working Through Grief by Martha Whitmore Hickman
The Empty Room: Surviving the Loss of a Brother Or Sister at Any Age by by Elizabeth DeVita-Raeburn
Staring at the Sun: Overcoming the Dread of Death by Irvin Yalom
The Power of Showing up by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson
Dibs in Search of Self by Virginia M. Axline
Play Therapy- The Inner Dynamics of Childhood by Virginia M. Axline
Media Environments and Mental Disorder: The Psychology of Information Immersion by William Indick
Building your Ideal Private Practice by Lynn Grodzki
10 Principles for Doing Effective Couples Therapy by Julie Schwartz Gottman
Understanding Research Methods by Mildred L. Pattern & Michelle Newhart
A Volcano in my Tummy: Helping Children to Handle Anger by Eliane Whitehouse & Warwick Pudney
40 Techniques Every Counselor Should Know by Bradley T. Erford
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by Gottman, J., & Silver, N.
The Whole-Brain Child: 12 revolutionary strategies to nurture your child's developing mind by Tina Bryson, Tina Payne & Daniel J. Siegel
Doing Play Therapy From Building the Relationship to Facilitating Change by Terry Kottman & Kristin K Meany-Walen
Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship by Garry L. Landreth
Foundations of Play Therapy by Charles E. Schaefer
Divorcing Children: Children's Experience of Their Parents' Divorce by Ian Butler, Lesley Scanlan, Margaret Robinson, Gillian Douglas, & Mervyn Murch
Play in Family Therapy, Second Edition by Eliana Gil & Matthew D. Selekman
Honey, I Wrecked the Kids_ When Yelling, Screaming, Threats, Bribes, Time-outs, Sticker Charts and Removing Privileges All Don't Work by Alyson Schafer
A Therapist’s Guide to Child Development: The Extraordinarily Normal Years by Dee C. Ray
New Peoplemaking: Science and Behavior Books by Virginia M. Satir
Engaging Children in Family Therapy: Creative Approaches to Integrating Theory by Catherine Ford Sori
Child Parent Relationship Therapy CPRT: A Ten-session Filial Therapy Model by Garry L. Landreth, Sue C. Bratton
Advanced Sandtray Therapy Digging Deeper into Clinical Practice by Linda E. Homeyer & Marshal N. Lyles
Family Therapy Techniques by Salvador Minuchin & Charles Fishman
Case Conceptualization in Family Therapy by Michael D. Reiter
Systems Theory in Action: Applications to Individual, Couple, and Family Therapy by Shelly Smith
Family Violence in a Cultural Perspective Defining, Understanding, and Combating Abuse by Malley-Morrison & K., Hines,
Sex Therapy with Erotically Marginalized Clients by Damon Constantinides, Shannon Sennott & Davis Chandler
Clinical Applications of Bowen Family Systems Theory by Murray Bowen &Peter Titleman
Family Therapy in Clinical Practice by Murray Bowen
Families and Family Therapy by Salvador Minuchin
Family Therapy Techniques by Salvador Minuchin
News Resources
Good Good Good - Good News Only
Sunday Club - Paper newspaper with games and puzzles
History Nation - App for history stories