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Divorce Resources

  • King County Parent Seminar

    • The seminar costs $80 per parent.

    • Registrations occurs via Eventbrite

    • Parents must sign up for different sessions.

    • This is a mandatory class for all co-parents filing for divorce.

Picture Books for Families Transitioning Through Divorce

  • The Invisible String — Patrice Karst

  • I Love You When You're Angry — Erin Winters, illustrated by Kaitlin Bucher

  • I Love You When I’m Happy and I Love You When I’m Sad by Christi Kmecik

  • The Great Big Book of Families — Mary Hoffman, illustrated by Ros Asquith

  • Why do Families Change? By Jillian Roberts, Illustrated by Cindy Revell

  • Three Hearts Two Houses by Natalie Ellis Monterasteli

  • Two Homes Filled with Love by Steve Herman

  • Max’s Divorce Earthquake by Rachel Bracy, Illustrated by Angela Perrini

Books on Blending Families

  • Harriet’s Expanding Heart by Rachel Brace, Illustrated by Angela Perrini

  • A New Special Friend by Tamar Burris, Illustrated by Mousam Banerjee

Divorce Activity Books for Children

  • My Family is Changing: A drawing and activity book for kids of divorce by Tracy Mccconaghie

Divorce Chapter Books for Teens

  • The List of Things That Will Not Change — Rebecca Stead

  • Divorce is Not the End of The World by Zoe and Evan Stern

Divorce Books For Parents

  • The Co-Parenting Handbook — Karen Bonnell, with Kristin Little

Books in My Play Therapy Office

Picture Books on Emotion Regulation

  • Some Days I Flip My Lid-Learning to be a calm, cool kid by  Kellie Doyle Bailey, Illustrated by Hannah Bailey

  • The Bad Seed by Jory John, Illustrated by Pete Oswald

  • Even Superheroes Have Bad Days by Shelly Becker, Illustrated by Eda Kaban

  • Wilma Jean the Worry Machine by Julia Cook, Illustrated by Anita Dufalla

  • Today I Feel Silly & other moods that make my day by Jamie Lee Curtis, Illustrated by Laura Cornell

  • “Slowly, Slowly, Slowly,” said the Sloth by Eric Carle

  • F is for Feelings by Goldie Millar and Lisa A. Berger, Illustrated by Hazel Mitchell

  • That’s my Truck! A good inside story about hitting by Dr. Becky Kennedy, Illustrated by Joanie Stone

  • I Just Want to Do it My Way! My story about staying on task and asking for help By Julia Cook, Illustrated by Kelsey De Weerd

  • Jared’s Cool-Out Space by Jane Nelson, Illustrated by Bill Schorr

  • Sophia’s Anger Wheel of Choice by Jane Nelson, Illustrated by Bill Schorr

  • Train Your Angry Dragon by Steve Herman

Picture Books on Boundaries

  • A Terrible Thing Happened by Margaret M. Holmes, Illustrated by Cary Pillo

  • Do You Have a Secret? Jennifer Moore-Mallinos, Illustrated by Marta Fabrega

  • Yes! No! A First Conversation about Consent by Megan Madison, Jessiace Ralli, & Isabel Roxas

  • Out-of-Control Rhino: An impulse control story by Shoshana Stopek, Illustrated by Roman Diaz

Increasing the Crucial C’s (Courage, Capable, Connect, and Count)

  • Me & Mrs. C by Betty Lou Bettner, Illustrations by Jon White

  • What Do You Do With An Idea? By Kobi Yamada, Illustrated by Mae Besom

  • The Little Blue Bridge by Brenda Maier, Illustrated by Sonia Sanchez

  • Bella Likes to Try by Mary Lou Sanelli, Illustrated by Jessica Levey

  • The Proudest Blue: A story of Hijab and Family by Ibtihaj Muhammad with S.K. Ali, Illustrated by Hatem Aly

  • Spaghetti in a Hot Dog Bun, Having the courage to be who you are by Maria Dismondy, Illustrated by Kim Shaw

  • Hats are Not for Cats! By Jacqueline K. Rayner

  • Super Coco Will You Be My Friend? By Dr. Jay and Julie Lipoff, Illustrated by Ellisa Direnzo

  • Giraffes Can’t Dance by Giles Andede and Guy Parker-Rees

  • I will Never Get a Star on Mrs. Benson’s Blackboard by Jennifer K. Mann

Picture Books on Psychoeducation About Diagnosis

  • All Cats are On The Autism Spectrum by Kathy Hoopmann

  • All Dogs Have ADHD by Kathy Hoopmann

  • All Birds Have Anxiety by Kathy Hoopmann

Development and Growing Bodies

  • What Makes a Baby by Cory Silverberg, Illustrated by Fiona Smyth (3+)

  • It’s NOT the Stork! A book about girls, boys, babies, families, and friends by Robie H. Harris, Illustrated by Michael Emberley (4+)

  • It’s So Amazing! A book about eggs, sperm, birth, babies, and families by Robie H. Harris, Illustrated by Michael Emberley (7+)

  • Sex is a funny Word by Cory Silverberg and Fiona Smyth (End of Elementary and into Middle School Age)

  • You Know, Sex by Cory Silverberg and Fiona Smyth (Middle Schoolers)

  • Bodies are Cool by Tyler Feder (picture book for all ages)

More Books For Unique Occasions

  • The Night Before First Grade by Natasha Wing, Illustrated by Deborah Zemke

  • What is God? By Etan Boritzer, Illustrated by Robbie Marantz

  • Tell Me Again About the Night I Was Born by Jamie Lee Curtis, Illustrated by Laura Cornell

Links to Resources

Child and Teen Resources

Amaze.org - Puberty and Body Education

https://newslit.org/ - News and Technology Guidance for Kids

Books for Therapist

Reading is at the heart of how I grow as a therapist — these are the books that have shaped my thinking, and I'm sharing them in hopes they resonate with other clinicians too.

  • Play Therapy with Adults by Charles Schaefer

  • Family Play Therapy by Charles Schaefer & Lois Carey

  • Between Give and Take: A Clinical Guide to Contextual Therapy by Ivan Boszormenyl-Nagy & Barbara Krasner

  • Family Healing: Strategies for Hope and Understanding by Salvador Minuchin

  • You can Fix Your Family by Charles Fishman

  • Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson

  • Intensive Structural Therapy by Charles Fishman

  • The Co-Parents Handbook by Karen Bonnell

  • The Therapeutic Powers of Play: 20 Core Agents of Change by Charles E. Schaefer & Athena A. Drewes

  • Play Therapy: Basics and Beyond by Terry Kottman

  • AutPlay Therapy for Children and Adolescents on the Autism Spectrum by  Robert Jason Grant

  • The AutPlay Therapy Handbook by Robert Jason Grant

  • Partners in Play: An Adlerian Approach to Play Therapy by Terry Kottman

  • Healing After Loss: Daily Meditations for Working Through Grief by Martha Whitmore Hickman

  • The Empty Room: Surviving the Loss of a Brother Or Sister at Any Age by by Elizabeth DeVita-Raeburn

  • Staring at the Sun: Overcoming the Dread of Death by Irvin Yalom

  • The Power of Showing up by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson

  • Dibs in Search of Self by Virginia M. Axline

  • Play Therapy- The Inner Dynamics of Childhood by Virginia M. Axline

  • Media Environments and Mental Disorder: The Psychology of Information Immersion by William Indick

  • Building your Ideal Private Practice by Lynn Grodzki

  • 10 Principles for Doing Effective Couples Therapy by Julie Schwartz Gottman

  • Understanding Research Methods by Mildred L. Pattern & Michelle Newhart

  • A Volcano in my Tummy: Helping Children to Handle Anger by Eliane Whitehouse & Warwick Pudney

  • 40 Techniques Every Counselor Should Know by Bradley T. Erford

  • The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by Gottman, J., & Silver, N.

  • The Whole-Brain Child: 12 revolutionary strategies to nurture your child's developing mind by Tina Bryson, Tina Payne & Daniel J. Siegel

  • Doing Play Therapy From Building the Relationship to Facilitating Change by Terry Kottman & Kristin K Meany-Walen

  • Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship by Garry L. Landreth

  • Foundations of Play Therapy by Charles E. Schaefer

  • Divorcing Children: Children's Experience of Their Parents' Divorce by Ian Butler, Lesley Scanlan, Margaret Robinson, Gillian Douglas, & Mervyn Murch

  • Play in Family Therapy, Second Edition by Eliana Gil & Matthew D. Selekman

  • Honey, I Wrecked the Kids_ When Yelling, Screaming, Threats, Bribes, Time-outs, Sticker Charts and Removing Privileges All Don't Work by Alyson Schafer

  • A Therapist’s Guide to Child Development: The Extraordinarily Normal Years by Dee C. Ray

  • New Peoplemaking: Science and Behavior Books by Virginia M. Satir

  • Engaging Children in Family Therapy: Creative Approaches to Integrating Theory by Catherine Ford Sori

  • Child Parent Relationship Therapy CPRT: A Ten-session Filial Therapy Model by Garry L. Landreth, Sue C. Bratton

  • Advanced Sandtray Therapy Digging Deeper into Clinical Practice by Linda E. Homeyer & Marshal N. Lyles

  • Family Therapy Techniques by Salvador Minuchin & Charles Fishman

  • Case Conceptualization in Family Therapy by Michael D. Reiter

  • Systems Theory in Action: Applications to Individual, Couple, and Family Therapy by Shelly Smith 

  • Family Violence in a Cultural Perspective Defining, Understanding, and Combating Abuse by Malley-Morrison & K., Hines,

  • Sex Therapy with Erotically Marginalized Clients by Damon Constantinides, Shannon Sennott & Davis Chandler

  • Clinical Applications of Bowen Family Systems Theory by Murray Bowen &Peter Titleman

  • Family Therapy in Clinical Practice by Murray Bowen

  • Families and Family Therapy by Salvador Minuchin

  • Family Therapy Techniques by Salvador Minuchin

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